Relationship Advice: How to Stir Up a Conflict in Your Relationship
By Jeff Herring Relationship conflict can be a scary thing for many couples. Recently I was working with a couple that was doing pretty well, yet hada brief conflict earlier in the week. Before we could even celebratetheir progress one of them wanted to jump right in to talking about theconflict earlier in the week. I asked them to stop for a moment and consider something: are youbringing this up to finish cleaning up the conflict or only serve tostir up the conflict? How to Stir Up the Conflict “Stir it up; little darlin’ stir it up” - Bob Marley There are several mistakes couples usually make that will stir up aconflict instead of cleaning it up. Bring up the same conflict over and over, called conflict rehashing. Bring it up when other conflicts arise. Beat ‘em with your “angry stick” Tell other people about it until you get someone on your side. It’s OKto talk to others to try to get some clarity, but not to rally people toyour side. Never, ever let it go. Don’t talk about it at all and let the resentment build and build. If you recognize yourself in any of these tips, stop. I know that sounds so simple. Sometimes it can be. Visit http://www.SecretsofGreatRelationships.com for tips and tools for creating and growing a great relationship. Subscribe to our f-ree relationship advice newsletter as well as our f*r*e*e 10 day e-program on how to enrich your relationship today, from relationship coach and expert Jeff Herring. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jeff_Herring http://EzineArticles.com/?Relationship-Advice:-How-to-Stir-Up-a-Conflict-in-Your-Relationship&id=300458 job discropion of credit repair specalics credit report goverment bad credit no credit credit cards a bad credit loan to start a busness
